The mirror

So I am sitting here on Sunday night and looking back on my life over the past few years there have been a few lines in movies being advertised that either touch me or people close to me.  It is however fucked up that every single movie ends with a happy ending.  Life does NOT always have a happy ending. People get hurt, some heal some do not. Some people take a long time other people seem to really move on the minute after it happens.

I could go through a list of movies that have all the bullshit fairytale happy endings. Instead I am going to be simple and very blunt here. Get the fuck over it.  I can tell you that through life’s ups and downs nothing really matter except being able to look at yourself every morning and every single evening and like what you see.  It does not matter who you are, who you think you are, what you have or don’t have, how much  you have or don’t have.  It does not matter where you live, who you live with or anything else. As long as you can take a serious look in the mirror and not want to break the mirror you are doing pretty good. You really need to remember that the only person you absolutely need to live with is that person in the mirror. 

As for the rest of life, all of the material things, monetary values, and relationships revolve around how you look and perceive yourself in the mirror.  Meaning that you will only be as happy and content as you let yourself be.  Do not fall into the problem of actually believing Hollywood because they are full of shit.  Life is tough and you have 2 ways to exit life.  One is to do it quickly and early, or you can slug it out and enjoy the ride. Personally I am slugging it out and nothing else matters except that guy in the mirror.

are we men all mad???

So I was reading an article on why men are mad but I cannot say I agree completely. It is not so much that we are mad it is that what we expect from women is not there. and from that you can also come to the conclusion that we cannot find what we are looking for in a woman. If you expect to be treated as equals all over EXCEPT in a relationship then yes YOU might be a problem. Now I do hold the door for a perfect stranger, I will help an old lady to cross the street. I was raised to be a MAN and by nature(or nurture) an alpha at that so I understand how to treat people and that they should in fact return that type of treatment. Women these days no longer do this and this is the problem. It seems that women would like men to not change from the old fashion ways of thinking, but they can be modern and equal.

This is a story from a friend: James

Let’s see if this make sense to you. James a while back was asked out by a successful lady. We will call her Barb (names have been changed) Now James was always taught that the person who does the asking does the paying and since it is typically the guy who does the asking the guy does the paying. Now Barb asked me out so herein lies the issue. So the check comes out and is set on the table. they just got another round of drinks and are in no rush to go anywhere. So they both are ignoring the bill that is laying there. as they are getting ready to leave James naturally pulls for his wallet to pay, Barb does not move. Now does this sound right? A woman asked a guy out and the guy ends up paying for what the privilege of having dinner with her? Like Barb is that special, I think not, I was at the bar watching this all play out. the kicker is that night another woman we can call her Mary who was sitting at the next table over heard and saw everything. Ok I helped a little bit with the back story and she was much nicer, better looking and accomplished! Well a few days later I am out with James and a couple of others and Barb came over and said hi and asked if James would buy her a drink, yeah right came out of my mouth but was written all over his face. But really the best part of the night is when Mary came over right after Barb did looked James right in the eyes and said “ let me buy you a drink” Needless to say Mary is a hell of a woman and James is now a happy man with a woman that respects him.

End of that, maybe an update will come later.


What I am saying is this. women really need to respect the men they are out with. If you want to play the game then you really need to follow the rules or be kicked out of the game. I do like to watch people play the game it is funny to see anyone try to play that has no help, and yes fellas if I am there and see you floundering I will try to help you out. I can’t say I have found what I am looking for but I have no need for games but if I can pass at least a little knowledge to the next round of guys it is the least I can do. And please don’t get me wrong there are some women out there that play and play it well and this is the woman I want to play with.