blast from the past

I was out with real friends last night and it was really nice to see them. Now I have not seen a few of these people in a while and to be honest did not really know what to expect to happen, but it was a fun time. We were reminiscing about the ‘good old days’ and some of the antics we pulled.

For instance one time long ago there were 3 of us out for dinner. We had a pretty cute waitress and the one guy, let’s call him Compy, was really talking her up, flirting and going after her. Me and Carguy, are sitting there eating, drinking and having a fun time watching this all unfold. It must be said that normally Compy was not this forward with the women so it was like he read a book and went to a seminar. Anyway we are about half way through dinner and we can see that he is getting up the courage to ask the waitress for her number, not knowing if it is good or bad at this point we try to divert the conversation, so he does not crash and burn yet. So the next time the waitress comes up I ask her about the other waitress and say I would like to have breakfast with her friend in the morning. We this went over as well as to be expected, or so I thought. Toward the end of dinner waitress2 comes over and says if you can do eggs over easy I will make the coffee, score! Compy had such a look of amazement and it gave him enough confidence to actually grow a set of balls. So our waitress comes back and he really digs into her and in the end she shoots him down like a heat seeker missile, it really was a pitty. The best part of the night was the next morning when I had to cook for both of them.

This is just a tidbit of life we have been through but it really puts things in perspective. Back when we were younger we all had a lot of free time and a little bit of money and enjoyed ourselves more than we should have. But what are friends for, we always have fun when we get together. So keep in touch with your friends that you had fun with. Keep away from the negative people in life have fun be positive and go for it.

are we men all mad???

So I was reading an article on why men are mad but I cannot say I agree completely. It is not so much that we are mad it is that what we expect from women is not there. and from that you can also come to the conclusion that we cannot find what we are looking for in a woman. If you expect to be treated as equals all over EXCEPT in a relationship then yes YOU might be a problem. Now I do hold the door for a perfect stranger, I will help an old lady to cross the street. I was raised to be a MAN and by nature(or nurture) an alpha at that so I understand how to treat people and that they should in fact return that type of treatment. Women these days no longer do this and this is the problem. It seems that women would like men to not change from the old fashion ways of thinking, but they can be modern and equal.

This is a story from a friend: James

Let’s see if this make sense to you. James a while back was asked out by a successful lady. We will call her Barb (names have been changed) Now James was always taught that the person who does the asking does the paying and since it is typically the guy who does the asking the guy does the paying. Now Barb asked me out so herein lies the issue. So the check comes out and is set on the table. they just got another round of drinks and are in no rush to go anywhere. So they both are ignoring the bill that is laying there. as they are getting ready to leave James naturally pulls for his wallet to pay, Barb does not move. Now does this sound right? A woman asked a guy out and the guy ends up paying for what the privilege of having dinner with her? Like Barb is that special, I think not, I was at the bar watching this all play out. the kicker is that night another woman we can call her Mary who was sitting at the next table over heard and saw everything. Ok I helped a little bit with the back story and she was much nicer, better looking and accomplished! Well a few days later I am out with James and a couple of others and Barb came over and said hi and asked if James would buy her a drink, yeah right came out of my mouth but was written all over his face. But really the best part of the night is when Mary came over right after Barb did looked James right in the eyes and said “ let me buy you a drink” Needless to say Mary is a hell of a woman and James is now a happy man with a woman that respects him.

End of that, maybe an update will come later.


What I am saying is this. women really need to respect the men they are out with. If you want to play the game then you really need to follow the rules or be kicked out of the game. I do like to watch people play the game it is funny to see anyone try to play that has no help, and yes fellas if I am there and see you floundering I will try to help you out. I can’t say I have found what I am looking for but I have no need for games but if I can pass at least a little knowledge to the next round of guys it is the least I can do. And please don’t get me wrong there are some women out there that play and play it well and this is the woman I want to play with.

miserable mental midgets

Every now and then we all run across a person who is a mental midget. someone who cannot do anything but make other people's lives miserable because they are a miserable person. this person can fuck up any relationship or business deal with minimal effort if they are actually involved or not. all the have to do is open up their mouth and shit comes out. 99% of the time what actually comes out is just an out and out lie no truth what so ever. there is not really much to say to this person, when you call them out on it they go crying to whoever will listen. When you leave it alone they pump up their chest and claim victory, but they have no clue that they are losing and are a looser.

If you ever run into someone like this do yourself a favor run the other way. do not befriend them, or even make friendly chit chat as they will take this as you being their best friend in the whole world, they are not so get the fuck away.

If you run across a person like this at work you need to abide by the following rules in dealing with them.
1) Always, always, ALWAYS converse with them OLNY through emails. You need to make sure every last detail is in writing otherwise they will claim they were never told or were not involved even if they were supposed to take care of the whole thing 1000%.
2) NEVER, NEVER, NEVER befriend them, they will take this as an opening to torpedo you.
3) If the person starts a rumor confront them immediately you need to set the tone that you are bigger, stronger, smarter than they are
4) If there is a second rumor that they start you MUST have a PUBLIC confrontation not only about the rumor but also what work they should have been doing at the time to set the tone with management so they can also watch what is happening.
5) If it continues you will have 2 things you must do. For their actual work that they are not doing you must show the management that they are not getting the job done and are not an effect team player and you must band together all of your coworkers and make them see what is actually happening.


As a side note, if you were actually friendly with these people before you realized what they actually are you need to slowly pull away, and then must treat them like a frie-nemy. They know they have done something wrong but you need to play it out slowly.

This is how you need to play these people otherwise they will not only fuck up the company, your job, and your personal life but they will also ruin your outlook on all new comers to your life.

people are fucked up

People are fucked up. how is that for straight and to the point! What is it you should say to these people, well not much if you don’t really have to see them. If you do need to see them you have a few ways you can deal with it, either be nice or tell them right out fuck off you terd.

For instance, I handed off this blog to a person that a couple of the post are based on and here is how the conversation goes

Terd – “ yeah I can do 3 post a week for a couple week while you are away. “
Me – “great I can spend all my time on what I need to do”
Terd – “no problem I just put it in my calendar it will be done”
Me- “great look forward to reading them when I get back”

So I got back yesterday and looked and low and behold NOTHING, not a fucking thing was posted. And here is the conversation that happened.

Me – “dude what happened you never posted anything”
Terd – “yeah I know I never got around to it”
Me – “why not, were you called out of town, was there a natural disaster, what the fuck happened?”
Terd – “oh nothing, just didn’t feel like it”
Me – ‘ok, great you ass, go fuck your pet turtle”

Yeah wait until he needs help! Yeah I will be right there no problem. then 3 hours later and I am still not there the conversation will end with me saying “I just didn’t feel like it – click”